Hi All,
Be safe. Be careful. Take all precautions. Set Limits. Enforce Rules. Have a contact plan. Have contact times.
Most importantly.
Have fun!
Enjoy the weekend,
Kiki
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Daily Life Consulting
Friday, October 31, 2008
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
Keeping Anxiety Levels Down
Hi All,
It's been quite a while since I've posted here. Thanks for the emails asking (and sometimes badgering - it's ok you know I love ya) for a quick-kik-fix. We've been swamped doing new workshops and seminars dealing with the impact of the economy on children and families as well as our regular client, workshop, training and seminar schedule.
One issue keeps coming up over and over with most of you can be summed up in an email request from a new client "Mollie".
"....my biggest problem right now is dealing with my own anxiety, supporting my husband emotionally while he looks for a new job without letting on that I'm freaking out, and not losing it with the kids or letting them think that the sky has fallen..."
Ok - now this issue isn't one that we can solve in one email or post. Mollie and I have been working together to
* manage her anxiety levels
* find ways to take a "time-out" when she's feeling overwhelmed
* find ways to have some private time with a support network where she can talk about her issues and ways to deal with them.
* learn ways to communicate what's going on to her children in a way that they'll understand and still feel safe and comfortable.
Lots of work to do. But it needs to be done if you want to come out of all of it successfully and intact.
Good luck - take some time out for yourselves, take care of yourselves physically as well since stress can have physical impacts as well.
Wish I had the time to write more and in more detail right now but it's impossible today.
Please keep emailing. If you're new to the blog and Daily Life Consulting and want more information please call 646.458.0608 or email coach at dailylifeconsulting dot com
Enjoy the day - the best way you can,
Kiki
*****************
Daily Life Consulting
646.468.0608
It's been quite a while since I've posted here. Thanks for the emails asking (and sometimes badgering - it's ok you know I love ya) for a quick-kik-fix. We've been swamped doing new workshops and seminars dealing with the impact of the economy on children and families as well as our regular client, workshop, training and seminar schedule.
One issue keeps coming up over and over with most of you can be summed up in an email request from a new client "Mollie".
"....my biggest problem right now is dealing with my own anxiety, supporting my husband emotionally while he looks for a new job without letting on that I'm freaking out, and not losing it with the kids or letting them think that the sky has fallen..."
Ok - now this issue isn't one that we can solve in one email or post. Mollie and I have been working together to
* manage her anxiety levels
* find ways to take a "time-out" when she's feeling overwhelmed
* find ways to have some private time with a support network where she can talk about her issues and ways to deal with them.
* learn ways to communicate what's going on to her children in a way that they'll understand and still feel safe and comfortable.
Lots of work to do. But it needs to be done if you want to come out of all of it successfully and intact.
Good luck - take some time out for yourselves, take care of yourselves physically as well since stress can have physical impacts as well.
Wish I had the time to write more and in more detail right now but it's impossible today.
Please keep emailing. If you're new to the blog and Daily Life Consulting and want more information please call 646.458.0608 or email coach at dailylifeconsulting dot com
Enjoy the day - the best way you can,
Kiki
*****************
Daily Life Consulting
646.468.0608
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